Just some basic spring cleaning.

In the distant past, not all UI:s where remote UI:s. They still aren't,
but both of the "UI" and "UIData" structs are now only for remote UI:s.
Thus join them as "RemoteUI".

Before, we needed to always pack an entire msgpack_rpc Object to
a continous memory buffer before sending it out to a channel.
But this is generally wasteful. it is better to just flush
whatever is in the buffer and then continue packing to a new buffer.

This is also done for the UI event packer where there are some extra logic
to "finish" of an existing batch of nevents/ncalls. This doesn't really
stop us from flushing the buffer, just that we need to update the state
machine accordingly so the next call to prepare_call() always will
start with a new event (even though the buffer might contain overflow
data from a large event).

Then we can just load metadata in C as a single msgpack blob. Which also
can be used directly as binarly data, instead of first unpacking all the
functions and ui_events metadata to immediately pack it again, which was
a bit of a silly walk (and one extra usecase of `msgpack_rpc_from_object`
which will get yak shaved in the next PR)

Problem:

The documentation flow (`gen_vimdoc.py`) has several issues:
- it's not very versatile
- depends on doxygen
- doesn't work well with Lua code as it requires an awkward filter script to convert it into pseudo-C.
- The intermediate XML files and filters makes it too much like a rube goldberg machine.

Solution:

Re-implement the flow using Lua, LPEG and treesitter.

- `gen_vimdoc.py` is now replaced with `gen_vimdoc.lua` and replicates a portion of the logic.
- `lua2dox.lua` is gone!
- No more XML files.
- Doxygen is now longer used and instead we now use:
  - LPEG for comment parsing (see `scripts/luacats_grammar.lua` and `scripts/cdoc_grammar.lua`).
  - LPEG for C parsing (see `scripts/cdoc_parser.lua`)
  - Lua patterns for Lua parsing (see `scripts/luacats_parser.lua`).
  - Treesitter for Markdown parsing (see `scripts/text_utils.lua`).
- The generated `runtime/doc/*.mpack` files have been removed.
   - `scripts/gen_eval_files.lua` now instead uses `scripts/cdoc_parser.lua` directly.
- Text wrapping is implemented in `scripts/text_utils.lua` and appears to produce more consistent results (the main contributer to the diff of this change).

As only a few API functions make use of explicit freeing of the return
value, make it opt-in instead. The arena is always present under the
hood, so `Arena *arena` arg now doesn't mean anything other than getting
access to this arena. Also it is in principle possible to return an
allocated value while still using the arena as scratch space for other
stuff (unlikely, but there no reason to not allow it).

Problem:  Setting some options changes curswant unnecessarily.
Solution: Add a P_HLONLY flag that prevents changing curswant.
          (zeertzjq)

closes: vim/vim#14044

https://github.com/vim/vim/commit/fcaed6a70faf73bff3e5405ada556d726024f866

Note: this contains two _temporary_ changes which can be reverted
once the Arena vs no-Arena distinction in API wrappers has been removed.
Both nlua_push_Object and object_to_vim_take_luaref() has been changed
to take the object argument as a pointer. This is not going to be
necessary once these are only used with arena (or not at all) allocated
Objects.

The object_to_vim() variant which leaves luaref untouched might need to
stay for a little longer.

and for return value of nlua_exec/nlua_call_ref, as this uses
the same family of functions.

NB: the handling of luaref:s is a bit of a mess.
add api_luarefs_free_XX functions as a stop-gap as refactoring
luarefs is a can of worms for another PR:s.

as a minor feature/bug-fix, nvim_buf_call and nvim_win_call now preserves
arbitrary return values.

Refactor some earlier "temporary Array" code in buffer_updates.c to use
the modern style of MAXSIZE_TEMP_ARRAY and ADD_C